Am I A Gold Digger to Ask My Husband For This?
By admin On 2 Sep, 2017 At 01:34 AM | Categorized As Metro | With 0 Comments

I sincerely need advice and your readers opinion on this issue in my marriage as my husband has called me a gold digger.

My hubby wants me to join him in his business but has refused to pay me an allowance or should I call it a salary. So, I declined and insisted that he pays me the sum of about 30k before I commit myself to his business.

I made this decision because of the so many bad experiences that I have had in this marriage for 10 years. He stopped me from running my own business that I have a passion for and threatened me with divorce if I disobeyed, so I obeyed.

Yet, he’s not generous towards me but only gives me money for what I need and I’m ashamed to say I (almost 40 yr old) but do not have a savings. He knows and likes it that way.

I don’t feel financially secure in the marriage. He opened a life insurance for himself and education for his kids but none for me. I know he’s very buoyant. He also has workers who are secondary school leavers that he pays more than 30k.

I feel I deserve it as a finance graduate but he’s seriously angry now and calling me all sorts of names, saying that I’m a gold digger and love money too much.

Am I wrong to make such demand?

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